First and foremost, we are Jews. We are married, single, divorced, or looking. We are Hasidic, Sephardic, or Ashkenazy. We are Black Hatters, Yeshivish, Modern Orthodox, Conservodax, or Traditional. What all of us have in common is that we are frum and kinky. And we are not talking just old fashioned spanking.


We hope to create a safe place for the fellow frum kinksters to have a chance to express, talk, discuss, share, analyze, question their kinky preferences among likeminded people without of fear of being made fun of and/or ridiculed. We often find ourselves being unable to speak about our desires with the members of our community, we hide the fact we lead double lives, and feel isolated as a result. We have halachic questions, but we cannot find a rabbi who will listen to us without judgment and ‘pasken’ without phumphing around. It is our hope that this site will be a safeplace for those who share our problems and joys.


Many of us struggle to find our beshert; we are constantly looking for that special someone who accepts us as kinky and frum. We want a husband who wants a traditional Jewish life; as much as he wants to be a Master, play toy, submissive or servant. We want a wife who is a good frum girl, and is just as good of a slave, Mistress, or Domme. It is our hope that this blog will serve as a bridge to bring two Jews together, joined under the huppah, as well as in pain and pleasure.


We seek to create a safe place that allows for meaningful and productive conversations. Please respect the beliefs, ideas, and thoughts of those who chose to post to this blog. While the blog welcomes all the Jews regarding of their affiliations, please respect the fact that the blog is managed by Orthodox Jews and is primarily created to discuss the BDSM dynamic within Orthodox Judaism.


Foul language of any sort, attacks, destructive criticism will not be tolerated. Any posts or comments with hateful speeches, slogans, or name calling will not be approved, and will not be posted. If you wish to post a comment, we ask that you register with wordpress. If you wish to become a contributor, please contact kinkever@gmail.com